Revisiting the Past…

One of the reasons I began blogging several years ago was… well… I actually can’t tell you that because I don’t remember. I’m sure that, at the time, I saw it as an alternative to sending out email updates about my life. Somewhere early along the journey, my purpose changed and I began to not only chronicle my life, but what God was doing within it.

I realize now that it’s not as much what I thought God was doing at that moment, but how far along he’s brought me upon the path that I’ve walked. I’ve seen how my writing has improved over time, but more importantly, I’ve noticed how my response to adversity is different. Glancing at my past struggles, I see a “bring it on!” mentality in my tone and words. There was also an arrogance I had back then. Today, I know that my passion is still there, but it is tempered with the patience, wisdom, and humility that only life’s darkest moments can produce.

I don’t have to over-react anymore because I know God is in control at all times.

That last sentence was so important that it got its own paragraph. I even italicized that part that you really needed to pay attention to. There will be a test at the end of this post.

Anyway, the reason I bring this up is because I had a portion of my past recently resurface. This was something that I’d moved on from and almost forgotten, except as told in brief, anecdotal stories to friends about my life history. And here it was, knocking on my door and wanting to be let back in.

Exactly five years ago, I worked for a company called Teacher’s Choice, which was dba (doing business as) Scholastic ETV Consortium. My big boss was a man named Mykalai Kontilai, whom I dealt with nearly daily. I began on Monday, August 29th, 2005 and was wrongfully terminated less than four weeks later on Thursday, September 22nd.

If you would like to go back and read any of the original posts, they are chronicled (warts and all) right here:

Upon reviewing my old blog posts, I noticed my previous demeanor. While it doesn’t invalidate the facts of the case, I feel that it does cloud them as the rantings of an angry man. Since this situation has passed by the wayside over the years, my emotions are no longer involved and I can discuss this from a calmer point of view without the emotional involvement I had before.

You might ask, “why are you bring this up now?” Good question! I’d like to point you to an article on Current.org about my former employer, Mykalai Kontilai. Last week, this article was brought to my attention. Reading this caused me to dig into my data archives and resurrected old documents and emails, rehashing what happened to me five years ago. Everything backs up what I’ve said previously in my blogs. I was even reminded of a couple of things that I had forgotten, thanks to various notes I had written to myself.

The following are my experiences working for Mykalai Kontilai and Teacher’s Choice/Scholastic ETV Consortium. They are true and I am willing to testify under oath and penalty of perjury as to the accuracy of these facts.

I began working for Mykalai that last week of August 2005. Within two weeks, I began having misgivings about the work environment and leadership, but was not prepared to quit just yet. The office itself was nice, but fairly small with only a handful of employees. Aside from Mykalai and myself: there was Sam, another salesman who would be made my supervisor; the office manager, Susan Botella; DJ, who handled all of the video capturing and dubbing (I had actually applied for his job originally); and the IT guy, I think was named Richard. Once in a while, Mykalai’s wife would man the reception desk.

At first, I didn’t have an office or desk. I sat in the conference room and made all of my phone calls on the big table. The laptop that they tried to give me was extremely old and slow, so I got permission to use my personal laptop. At one point, I remember them trying to revoke that privilege, but I managed to always do at least some of my work on my own machine. Whenever I asked about needing software that wasn’t installed on their laptop, I was given a CD with a hand-written label. It appeared to me as if it might be pirated. I inquired to Susan about this at one point, in a non-accusatory manner, and was brushed off. Sometime shortly before my termination I had access to my employee file, which contained a post-it note about this conversation. Why was it so important to document that fact that I casually asked if we had licenses for all of our software? In fact, I know that the copy of Final Cut Pro being used wasn’t legal, because there was a major problem that DJ was having and there was a hallway conversation about not being able to contact Apple about the problem because they didn’t procure it legally. All of this leads me to believe that this company was guilty of software piracy. After my termination, I reported them to a couple of different agencies, including directly to Apple.

We interrupt this stroll down memory lane to make a side note. I mentioned above how I didn’t have a proper computer to use and none of the software appeared legal. Well, it should be interesting to know that the front desk had a nice monitor/HDTV to entertain the “receptionist” and Mykalai also drove a nice, new Hummer H2. Seems a bit off-balance, if you ask me. We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming already in progress.

One of the things I noted at the time was how the company was a Nevada corporation, but it only operated within California. Now, I don’t want to harp on this much because I personally do not know if they were paying CA State franchise tax or not, but I know a lot of people think they can avoid it by incorporating in another state, but tax is still owed for where you operate. All I want to say is that, if no state tax was ever paid to California, this is another area where they broke the law.

From September 7th through the 9th, I was on a trip to Illinois to speak with WSEC in Springfield and WEIU in Charleston. This was a preliminary trip to pave the way for my actual presentations to school districts. WEIU had changed general managers since joining the program and didn’t understand how it worked. WSEC was having misgivings and was threatening to pull out of the contract. I was sent to help smooth things out. In the case of WSEC, we were going to bring Mykalai in via a conference call.

Earlier that day, Mykalai informed me that I was to refer to him as Robert Hoffman while on the call. Hoffman was supposedly one of the company’s partners (although I never met him) and “gave him permission to speak on his behalf” in these types of situations. He said that WSEC would be more comfortable talking to Hoffman than Mykalai, so I needed to make sure to keep up the charade. This is something that I was not comfortable with, but I didn’t really have time to voice my dissent and went along with everything. The meeting went well, but I felt as if I was lying to the client.

We will return to WSEC, as it is a major component in the story, but I want to be chronological with how I present the facts.

Returning to San Diego, I wrote a trip report, as requested by Sam. In it, I am very clear that I was uncomfortable with the Mykalai/Hoffman role playing and outright said that I would not do so again under any circumstances. I was standing my ground and later verbally reprimanded for it. This trip report is a document that I found in my archives and will happily share it with the public, if requested.

There was a second time that I was reprimanded, this time in writing. I had forgotten about this incident until I found the document dated Thursday, September 15th. This was probably a stupid thing to write, but I lashed out as their reprimand. The gist of the story is that I had a certain amount of school districts that I had to call for my regions in Illinois. Sam was on the road and asked me to call some of his districts, which I believe were in a later time zone. I prioritized my calls first and, when Sam called to follow up, I told him that I hadn’t gotten to his calls yet, but they were in my queue. He became upset and wrote me up upon his return. My argument was that I was doing my best to prioritize my job and get everything I needed done.

This was not the only incident of the company not allowing employees to use their best judgment in doing their job. A very sore topic for me was how I took notes. At first, I was using a MS Word document to detail who I called and when. I would type as I talked to them. Susan tried to force me into using paper and pen on more than one occasion. I always resisted, saying that I knew my own workflow and that I was a faster typist than I was by handwriting. My method also avoided having to type my written notes at the end of the day. In fact, I began creating a simple database in my personal time to help streamline efforts. What we really needed was to centralize our efforts with a CMS solution, like Salesforce. Unfortunately, my efforts were encountered with hostility and micro-management. This continued after Sam became my superior (which happened while I was still in Illinois) and Susan should have had no say in how I did my work.

The events that lead to my termination all happened over the course of two to three days. First, I received an email from Sue Lovdahl at WSEC on Tuesday, September 20th. It listed possible sites to hold the presentation. The way it was supposed to work was that the PBS station sets up the details of the meeting (where, when, refreshments, etc.) and ETV Consortium (i.e., myself as the account rep) would call all of their local school districts to invite them to hear what we had to say. I mentioned that the sites looked good and asked if they had contacted any of them yet (referring to the hotel locations, NOT the districts). Somehow, they thought I meant it the other way around. Looking at the original email, which Mykalai tried to use as his “smoking gun” evidence, I still can’t figure out how that happened. My only guess is that WSEC was still having misgivings and used this as an excuse to try getting out of the contract.

So, the misunderstanding became that I was deceiving WSEC and trying to get them to call school districts for me, when that was my job. There is no documentation to prove that. The only thing they have that suggests it, was me asking if they contacted the hotels to set everything up. In fact, I still have my database files and I can prove who I contacted when and what they said if I needed to. The fact of the matter here is that we had a misunderstanding that could have easily been corrected.

Because I knew this was a sensitive client, I didn’t just shoot back an email. I waited to speak with Mykalai about the situation and get his advice. He gave me a line to use and I called Sue at WSEC up and left her a voicemail, which said exactly what I was told to say. I was then called by another person at WSEC, Jerry Greubel, and gave him the same line. Something about what I said (I honestly can’t remember what it is to this day, but I know it was something that Mykalai told me to say) set Jerry off. He wanted to vent. I was then told not to communicate with the client until Mykalai sorted everything out.

Within a couple of hours, I had been let go. My letter of termination was filled with all of the lies above, saying that I jeopardized the relationship with their client. I tried to ask questions and Susan evaded them (she fired me herself because Sam was still on the road). I was adamant that what was written was untrue and I tried to defend myself. I asked to speak with Sam, my direct supervisor, and I was denied. I asked to speak with Mykalai before I left and I was again denied. In the end, I refused to sign the document, grabbed my stuff, and got out of there as quickly as possible. The only other time I stepped onto the premises was to exchange my door key for my final paycheck.

There was some brief communication with Mykalai after I left. He called (yeah, I finally got to talk to him, but after I left the building) and then we emailed. In the end, he twisted the email that I referred to against me, making it sound like I said the opposite of the intent. At first, I was trying to salvage my job, but in the end I told him that I didn’t even want to work for him anymore. I was sick of being around someone so dishonest.

I also emailed my contact at WEIU. We had built a very good rapport during our meeting and we had discussed me getting involved with one of their programs and speaking to their students during my return trip. I gave her a polite “head’s up” that I was no longer working with them, but I did not know who would be taking over for me. I initially offered no details about what happened and made contact from my personal email account so that we could remain in contact for non-Scholastic matters. Her response began with “the changeover of staff [at Scholastic ETV Consortium] is getting a little ridiculous.” In the end, I told her my story. She said that I had been very clear with her about roles and duties, so she wasn’t sure herself how this misunderstanding with the other station could have happened. This news validated my position, but I kept it to myself.

A week later—on Wednesday, September 28th—I received a phone call from Mykalai. He said that he was getting reports from clients that I was continuing to contact them after being terminated. Well, I only contacted one, which I mentioned above. He threatened to sue me if I didn’t stop, citing “Economic Interference” as his legal grounds. The problem I had with his threat was that I hadn’t interfered, I had contacted her to stay in touch and told her what happened. I did not tell her to break her $200K contract with Mykalai. My email records prove this. And even if I did contact her to try and win her business to a competing company, Mykalai would have no grounds to sue me anyway—not even if I had signed a non-compete agreement when I was hired! One of the things I learned in college business classes was that those agreements are unenforceable because it inhibits a worker from practicing their trade. In the end, I signed no such document and did no such interfering. I would have loved to prove that in court, too.

So, some time passed. I had to call and threaten to report them to the IRS because they didn’t send my W-2 by the end of that January. On March 6th, I stumbled across a post on the Labor Law Talk forums. It was from a woman who was hired after my termination and she had some problems getting her final paycheck when she quit. Now, I admit that my response was kinda stupid. I used my last name as my username and wrote, “Mykalai’s a bastard, huh? You should sue him.” I then wrote a couple of other pieces of information so she knew I was legit and offered to email with her if she wanted to talk.

Between my original blog post about my termination and this forum thread (I got into a discussion with someone about the entire CA tax issue), I had gotten the attention of Mykalai again. It was Saturday, April 1st when he called me. As I look back, it makes perfect sense for him to call me on April Fool’s Day (not because it was a prank, but because I think he is a fool). I’m not going to list the entire conversation (you can read that here), but he was once again threatening to sue me. An important line to note was, “I am going to hunt you down. I am going to take you for everything you are worth, not that it’s much because you are penniless.”

Did you catch that? He was going to hunt me down. The funny thing is, at the time, I only had a mailbox that he could find. I never published my residence and was careful not to place the name of the company I worked at online. In order to serve me papers, he would have to show up at my mailbox, which I infrequently checked and often late at night after hours. So, he really would have had to hunt me down.

Needless to say, I never heard from him. My reasoning at the time, which still sounds solid, was that he wouldn’t have called himself if he had a real case. His lawyer would have just filed papers and served me. The only thing he accomplished was intimidating me into make the blog private so only MySpace friends could see it (that’s where it was hosted at the time) and caused me to look over my shoulder for a few months whenever I got my mail. I’m not afraid of him anymore, so the blog is once again public.

Now, if you haven’t read the Current article yet, make sure to do so. It tells us how his company just bought the Nightly Business Report, a revered PBS financial program that has been on air since 1979. It talks about the 20+ lawsuits filed against Mykalai over a period of 20 years, several for breach of contract. It describes his involvement in raising funds for Xyience founder Russell Pike and his lawsuit to stop an investor from getting their money back.

I must admit that the Xyience-related lawsuit raises a red flag for me. Allow me to quote a section from the article:

Pike had been out of prison for about four years at that point. Pike’s previous company, Advanced Cart Technology, which manufactured drink carts for casinos, had declared bankruptcy in 1996; Pike had been indicted on charges of bank fraud, money laundering and aiding and abetting in connection with the company, according to a California Department of Corporations document. He pleaded guilty to money laundering in 1999 and was sentenced to 59 months in federal prison, three years of supervised release and ordered to pay restitution of $2.4 million, the document said.

Okay, so let’s connect the dots. Mykalai helped raise $23M for Pike, an ex-con convicted of bank fraud and money laundering. Mykalai has a history of dishonest business practices (as personally experienced by me) and a string of lawsuits against him and his companies. Mykalai agreed to give money back to an investor, who called him a “crook” and threatened to expose him to legal authorities. Mykalai then sues to stop the investors from being able to speak out against him. Now, Mykalai is overseeing a revered financial news program on PBS. Are we seeing the problem here?

I’m sorry, but something stinks.

Update 9/8/2010: The story continues here. Make sure to read it.

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Poetry: Silent Jealousy

It makes me slightly jealous,
To see you with that man.
And I grow somewhat crazy,
When I watch you hold his hand.

Every smile you glance at him,
I wish was truly mine.
For deep inside I know that you
Were sent from the divine.

It pains me as I see you both
As happy as can be.
Even though the joy should fill
To see your heart so free.

But jealousy runs through my veins,
And I grow sick inside.
If only true love’s kiss were real,
Perhaps you’d be my bride.

Instead, I watch you from afar,
Filled with glee and merry.
But I’d be happier truly still,
If I was the one you’d marry.

The last thing I’d ever want,
Is to ruin your happiness.
So with my dreams I’ll sit on by,
You can keep your bliss.

But if he dares to ever leave you,
Should he care to break your heart.
I’ll be there with moments lost,
Ready to play the part.

I’ll tell you that I always loved you,
Enchanted by your eyes.
Your lips would curl a crafty smile,
My affection a surprise.

Perhaps if sooner had I told you this,
Would not we had to wait?
Was this time passed between us two,
Avoiding our earthly fate?

But still a dream that day will be,
And will it ever come?
“It must!” I say, and must indeed!
You are the only one.

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A Hardened Heart…

Every once in a while, I am taught a lesson that is so blatantly obvious that I have no choice, but to sit up and pay attention. Today contained one of those lessons.

Over the last two years living in Los Angeles, I would have to admit that my tolerance and patience for beggers and panhandlers has diminished. One might think that my countless brushes with homelessness would make me more sensitive to their plight, but it hasn’t. Looking back, I see the same legalistic wickedness that was found in the Pharisees.

“Look upon me with favor, Lord!” is my attitude. “I am not like this beggar, who is unwilling to work for their wages. I have not stooped to their level of desperation!” (If you don’t know my reference, see Jesus’ parable told in Luke 18:9-14.)

God has pointed this flaw out to me before. You would think I would have caught on the first time. Apparently not. I refuse to make eye contact. I never give them any money. In fact, I lie about not having any change on me; self-justified by the fact that I have little money and, what I do have, I need for myself so I can eat and carry on.

Today, God decided to show me my selfishness.

After putting enough gas in my tank to return from a speaking engagement in San Diego, I was down to my last fifteen dollars. This needed to last me a couple days at the least. At this point, every dime spent is scrutinized.

To my blessing, I was treated to lunch by my client. They even grabbed me an ice-blended coffee a couple hours later during a meeting. Two blatant examples of me being taken care of despite my circumstance.

The culmination of this story comes during my evening commute. I stopped at a 7-Eleven to pick up a pack of gum (I was out and headed to bible study, you know the drill). As I approached a door, a woman approached me.

“Do you have any spare change?” she asked. “I’m hungry and I’d like to get something to eat from this store.”

“I’m sorry,” I said without making eye contact. I moved as quickly for the door as possible. “I only have what’s on my debit card.”

I lied. Not only did I have cash and change in my pocket, but there isn’t even any money available on my debit cards. I just switched immediately into my defensive “you aren’t getting any of my money” mode. This revelation was the first thing the Holy Spirit convicted me of.

I glanced out the store windows. In order to uphold my lie, I wanted to make sure she didn’t see me paying with cash. Instead, she was talking to two other women that were about to come into the store. I assumed that they were blowing her off as well, so I went back to my business at hand. A moment later, I turned around and was surprised to see her in the next aisle.

I stood there. Judging her heavy makeup and furious inside that it would now be more difficult to contain my lie. Then I realized what was happening.

“I think I’m going to get a pizza!” she said excitedly to the two women, nearly jumping up and down.

“Whatever you want,” came the reply. They waited patiently by the register while she ran around the store, deciding what she wanted.

My job dropped as everything was pieced together in front of me. My hardened heart had lied and refused to help, while these women were generously buying her the sustinance to continue on. And based on the excitment of this woman I had just shunned, I knew her hunger was real. After all, I’ve been there myself.

Again, I was convicted. The fact I only had a handful of money was beside the point, I had been given reprieve twice that day and I had not returned the favor.

“Whatever you do to the least of these, you do unto me.” These words of Christ echoed in my head as I hurried to check out. I returned to my car and quickly drove away as my heart ached. I failed to live out my faith in the simplest way of pulling out the loose change that I didn’t need to spend to begin with.

As if to further emphasize the event, I then met up with a friend for dinner and he paid my burger. I ate the entire day without spending a penny, but I couldn’t spare a few for someone else.

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Bring On The Midgets!

I do not hide which holiday is my favorite. No, it’s not Christmas, Easter, or my birthday; my favorite holiday is Halloween. I guess it has to do with my involvement in the entertainment industry and getting to play dress-up for a day and be a goblin, ghoul, or gay fashionista. And the fact that it’s an acceptable excuse for beautiful women to dress like hookers doesn’t hurt, either.

Anyway, I’d have to say that my second favorite holiday would be April Fools Day. Three years ago, I pulled off a massive prank on my MySpace blog, where I convinced several of my friends for most of the day that I was going to be a new cast member on SNL. So far, that is my biggest prank to date. Mostly because I don’t have the time, energy, or money to pull something really big off. Maybe next year.

In honor of today being April Fools Day, I’d like to share with you an email I received a few days ago:

Thanks for your time in writing us!  We’ll get back to you in two shakes of a lambs tail!  Have a great day!

You submitted the following information:

Your Name: Aaron Kaiser

Contact Phone: [redacted, but accurate]

Type Your Comment or Quesions Here:

Hello,

I am interested in renting some of your midgets for an evening. I am attending a film award show for which a film of mine has been nominated and I would like four midgets to carry me into the theater on a Egyption style chair. I would also like to have two midgets walk behind me and carry the train of my cape.

The event is this Saturday evening in Hollywood. Please contact me as soon as possible so we can confirm. Price is no issue. I want my peers to be envious of me.

Thanks,

Aaron

Alright… so, who’s the wise-guy that sent this to Tiny Entertainment on my behalf? It’s obviously someone who knows me, judging from the fact they submitted my cell number. The curious notes are that they didn’t submit my full name or use my standard email signature. So, this is someone that knows me, but not enough to have gotten every detail right.

The part I am confused about, is was this a harmless prank, or someone maliciously trying to sully my name? My friends (who all wish they had thought this up themselves) think it’s harmless and in good fun. So far, I haven’t found the culprit, but I will be planning my revenge for once they show themselves. With a prank this good, they can’t go on forever without taking responsibility.

On a side note, I haven’t heard from the midgets yet.

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Power Outage During Edit Session!

Power Outage During Edit Session!

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We were in the middle of editing our Ford Fiesta Movement audition video and the power went out!

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Poetry: Midst of an Endless Dream

In the midst of an endless dream,
as my heart races and the moonlight beams;

The gentle flutter of a long goodbye,
dissipates as you catch my eye.

And soon you speak with voice so soft,
no more was life who’s kilter off;

Standing there, across the room,
one soul’s smile caused the other to bloom.

©2010 Aaron Matthew Kaiser. All Rights Reserved.

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The Waves Around Me…

The phone rang. I recognized the number, but answered anyway. It was another person I owed money, this time my Internet Service Provider for my office. I told them the same thing I’ve told everyone else regarding my car, insurance, storage, mail box, and cell phone: there isn’t enough money to go around. I barely had the funds to cover feeding my crew on the Ford Fiesta Movement audition shoot this past Saturday, and there are missing elements still (like a project hard drive) because I do not have the cash necessary to take care of the needs.

*CRASH* A wave splashes over me.

I remember my current struggles to find an editor for this project. I don’t have the proper equipment to handle it on my own and no one seems to be willing to help me for free. Those who are willing, don’t feel like they have time to commit. The delay, now jeopardizing the deadline for submission to Ford by the end of the month, begins to weigh me down.

*CRASH* Another wave hits me.

It takes me a moment to resurface and cough out the water in my lungs. I look over to a devotional that I was just given by one of my pastors. I think of how I haven’t spent as much time in the Word last year as I would have liked and I pick it up, not expecting much from today’s entry. I turn to January 15th and I read:

My face is shining upon you, beaming out Peace that transcends understanding. You are surrounded by a sea of problems, but you are face-to-Face with Me, your Peace. As long as you focus on Me, you are safe. If you gaze too long at the myriad problems around you, you will sink under the weight of your burdens. When you start to sink, simply call out “Help me, Jesus!” and I will lift you up.

Seriously? That was today’s entry? I feel as if the waves are crashing over me and around me and I open up the devotional and the words spoken—inspired by Philippians 4:7, Matthew 14:30, and Hebrews 12:2—talk about that very thing? Now, you tell me that God isn’t here, speaking to us today. You tell me that He doesn’t care about me individually (Luke 12:7 would argue that God counts the hairs on my head). This was meant exactly for me for this day and this very hour that I read it. Yes, it was meant for others as well, but there was a power and a timing to me getting this devotional last night and not two weeks ago, causing this to be the very first thing that I read out of it.

This entire situation has reminded me what I’ve been asking God to help me with the last couple of weeks: to rely and trust in Him, because He has it all under control. I ask Him to show me who to contact so that I can do my part, but not to stress out over that which I cannot control.

It’s also shown me one more thing: my writing has suffered this last year because I wasn’t in the Word as much as I should be. Yes, I have been allowed a certain amount of creativity within my projects, but this blog entry immediately flowed as soon as I tapped into the source of my creativity: the one who first created me. I desire to blog more and explore my walk with Christ and, if I am not seeking His face, then how am I to speak about Him? Just food for though.

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Eulogy for 2009 (feat. "The Reverend")

Eulogy for 2009 (feat. “The Reverend”)

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It’s a new year and it’s time to talk about the old one and how much we hate it. 2009 brought a lot of us a lot of pain and suffering and this is my take on it. Imagine if 2009 were a person and that person just died. What would you say at 2009′s funeral?

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Someone Stole My Christmas Presents!!!

Someone Stole My Christmas Presents!!!

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I just got back from San Diego and was carrying a few things into my office, located in downtown Burbank, for safe keeping. I accidentally left a basket with what few Christmas presents I got this year on the roof of my car for ten minutes. When I returned, it was gone! This is my rant in the parking garage.

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Christmas Presents & CD Collections

Christmas Presents & CD Collections

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What happens when your family buys you music for every birthday and Christmas over several years? A large CD collection, that’s what! It’s Christmas morning and we are taking a look at the CD collection that my cousin, Grant, has compiled over time. There are over 350 titles here, equaling about 17 days worth of music. Do you share his musical interests?

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